Looking for Others to Recognize You?

Photo by David Stenbeck @dovneon on instagram

Photo by David Stenbeck @dovneon on instagram

Tell you what you can do? What you can achieve? How can they when they don’t know who you truly are and what you can do? You are the only one who can determine that.

How do you expect others to recognize you if they don’t have the wisdom you have?

We see our reflection in others. There were time in my life when I wasn’t recognizing myself. It’s still something I bring awareness too. I knew what I had to offer, but I wasn't owning it. Seeing it in myself. Still giving away my power to those I loved around me. They saw beautiful things in me, but not the extent of my capacity and what I could do. I don’t need to follow a traditional or “safe” life in a corporate. I can say with confidence now that I’m not meant to. I’m not saying there is anything wrong with a corporate life. That could be many people’s path and be very fulfilling. The thing we have to check in with is our internal compass and why we are doing something. Is it bringing joy? If not then we aren’t doing it for the right reason. For example - there are basketball players who love basketball so much and do it for the joy. Who are grateful. They are the ones that take time to sign autographs and give back. Then there are those who do it for the money or fame or because it makes their family “proud” of them. They are the ones that get lost in the image. Feel entitled to things because they “worked hard for it.” The resulting difference in true happiness inside is varied by these two examples. Not to judge as one way is good or bad. We all have done something of the sort in some area of our life. There is a difference in confidence and self worth and needing praise as validation. The person that is free in this scenario is doing this because it’s what they want to do. They are getting joy from this situation. Giving and Receiving.

The money will follow your true bliss. You will be cared for. Money is about flow. Allowing. Giving. And receiving. Not meant to control. Come from fear. Scarcity. Lack. There are millionaires and billionaires who are still poor. There are people who make money, but keep having to buy more things so they always remain poor. I saw this in corporate too. Saw managers wanting to keep the people in sales “hungry” by telling them to buy these big cars and houses once they got a large paycheck so their money would be gone again. There’s no judgment. You can have whatever you want. But do it for you. Not for others or for validation. I recently sold all of my designer things that I felt were controlling me. Things I had, but weren’t bringing me happiness. I only kept the pieces that I wasn’t attached too and if it got taken or I lost it I wouldn’t care. I realized I was so attached to a Chanel bag. Worrying about the logistics of traveling with it and leaving it behind. It was a symbol of my “hardwork” in corporate. I had always wanted a Chanel bag loving fashion growing up. But when I had it I felt like I should feel more happiness inside. But I felt nothing. It’s a pretty purse. Good quality. But I thought I should feel something more. I had always thought this would be the one thing I would keep forever. It was a surprise to me when I realized this was why I had to get rid of it. I didn’t want it controlling me. Am I saying I will never get Chanel or designer things again. I don’t know. I’m just releasing all attachment to things. I don’t want anything to own me. I will get something if I like it because I like it. But never become attached. This isn’t hate on designer things. I still have designer items. I like things that are good quality and will last. That are sustainable. But I’m not attached to it. If a Chanel purse really brings you joy then get it. Not telling everyone to get rid of things. But this bag was just a symbol really. It didn’t make me happy. As I cleaned out my closet I kept only the things that brought me joy - not because of what others would think but because I liked it. I got rid of things based on whether it did something for me instead of being based on is this a good investment or this purse is better etc.

Do it for you.

If something is owning you then you’re not free. If there are scarcity and lack programs then they will always exist no matter how much money you make. If you’re able to do work on it now - you’ll change the course of your life. To overcome this misconceptions will heal you from the inside out and allow you to creste a healthy relationship with money. You deserve whatever you want. You don’t have to be ashamed to want things or to be comfortable. It doesn’t mean you’re not a good person. It’s time to eliminate this frame of mind. This judgement on ourself and others. We need to take care of ourselves and treat ourselves how we want others to treat us. We are not meant to hoard and hold onto. It’s a reflection of not letting go of something inside. We don’t need things to prove our worth. They never will prove it to us. We are worthy because we are. I’m sorry that society made you believe that you had to do something to be worthy. You don’t need to do anything. You are worthy because you exist. Money, status, fame doesn’t prove it. And it will never achieve it for you unless you believe it inside. When you do believe it inside you will attract to you things that prove it in your reality because it resonates with your internal beliefs. But it’s about the inside matching the outside. Life is a mirror. Within and without. As above so below. 

Xo Jess 

Be a Spiritual Scientist

True spirituality is being a scientist.


It is about using discernment.

Testing out and experiencing different modalities to find ones that have proven effects for you. As humans we have limited technology in this time that we rely on. Much of what is released and study is with agenda of who is paying for it and promoting it. Studies that are backed by companies. It’s important that you stay curious and do your research. Always see what works for you. I’ve done my own studies of many modalities. I’ve have found “spiritual healing practices” used by many different practitioners all explaining the same thing in different ways and all of these having massive effects beyond what our “proven science” tells us. When I see this - that for me is common sense. That for me is what works. Why would I spend time doing something else when this works? Taking drugs for symptoms when I can get to the core of what needs to be healed. That is why spirituality is true science for me because it goes to the core. It does add a patch. A medication. Give it a label as a disease to mitigate - to live with. Instead they see what we have done to create the disease. What belief. It gives us back our power. I have seen people heal anything you could imagine. I have seen people overcome their own limiting beliefs to achieve their goals in health, wealth, and love. Life is simple - we are the ones that complicate it by trying to think and be “clever.” To do the “logical” thing. I used to be like that. Conceptualizing things and doing “the smart” or “right thing”. But the smart of right thing can be hijacked. It is all just an opinion at the end of the day. The brain is like a computer and it can argue anything. It depends on the level your vibrating at. What information you have available to you. Many laws of the past were doing the right thing. Or the good thing as far as their perception, but we look back at it today asking “how could one do that.” Well it was because they were doing their best with the information they had. Everyone is. It’s best to ask yourself how do you feel. Do you feel that something is wrong inside, but you’re doing it because you’re “supposed to” or it “makes sense”? This is something that we have to consistently check in on internally because we are so programmed. 95% of what we do is subconscious, so how can we say we are relying on the brain and what studies say when our actions and findings are mostly subconscious? We all have to seek out practices that clear this. That put us back in the drivers seat of our life. For when we are clearing out our computer cache per say of these programs. Restarting at the factory settings of birth. Then we can have a clear field to stay curious and really see what is right for us. And not hold judgement that someone else may choose something different that is right for them. We see the bigger picture and we move out of duality and see that there are so many options. Not just the ones that have been “presented.”

What is right for you?

How I Changed My Life


“Yesterday I was clever, so I wanted to change the world. Today I am wise, so I am changing myself.” - Rumi⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀

The subconscious is a crazy beautiful thing. Did you know most of the population is only operating at 1% concious behavior. 3-5% for the more awakened. 97-99% are subconscious beliefs that were ingrained before the age of 7. That means most of your beliefs that you are living now were locked in by 6. What if you could reset your factory settings to become whole brained? Make sure you are not sabotaging yourself or programming yourself unintentionally for disease or aliments. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀

With PSYCH-K you can. After getting my advanced certification my life will never be the same. We are able to identify things conciously, but do you believe the same subconsciously? I was shocked to find some beliefs my subconscious was holding against myself. After balancing for these - I cured myself of seasonal allergies. I’ve had allergies since the age of 7. When I arrived in NYC last week I was feeling sick from all the pollen. Couldn’t breathe well on the plane or at night when I was trying to sleep. Was inflamed. After reprogramming, the next day I had perfectly clear breathing. No medication involved. For the first time in my life since I was a kid, I’m taking no allergy medicine. My system isn’t attacking myself anymore 🤯. Mine is one of many stories, and the people I’m working with have their own stories that blow me away everyday. Through PSYCH-K we can talk directly to the subconscious and give you back your power. Put you in the drivers seat. Modern medicine is great, but most times they are only focused on treating the symptoms. Not the core beliefs of why the system is attacking itself. That is why we have so many unexplained diseases. Increases in cancer. That’s why there is so much malfunctioning in the world because there is a malfunctioning in thinking. It gives you more compassion for everyone because everyone is operating at the level they know best through their lens of life.  Just think - you got this far in your life with a malfunctioning system- can you imagine life with everything at optimal settings? This is life with PSYCH-K.

Video on the effects of reprogramming the mind: https://youtu.be/eB-vh6VWdcM